"May the God of hope fill you with great joy and peace as you trust in him." Romans 15:13

Sunday, March 8, 2015

It was a Hot Dog Roasting, Trampoline Jumping Kind of a Day! (In March!!)

 Mataya experienced her first fire-roasted hot dog today!

In March!!!  The snow is nearly gone; and the temperature was warm (50*), so daddy decided it was time for a bonfire!  

 Good plan, Daddy!

It was a rare evening in which all our kids were home and no one else was over.  It is so rare for it to just be "us."
 Mataya thought she was BIG stuff eating outside with all the big kids!
 And THEN...
we took her on the trampoline!
 Oh. My. Goodness!  She had so much fun.


 If she lets me sleep, I will be dreaming of her baby giggles tonight!

I get it!
I LOVE the tramp.  I never laugh as hard as I do when I am on the trampoline with the kids.  Jamison loves to sneak and double bounce me way into the air.  I scream and giggle like a 5 year old.  Seriously.  I love the tramp!


I am so thankful for the fun end to this weekend.

Simple fun and fresh air was exactly what I needed.  I have been one grouchy momma.  Chad has not been feeling well.  Mataya has not been sleeping. Even after a vacation, the daily grind and hectic to-do list has felt overwhelming.  I am weary, and I am weary of being weary.    Though fresh air and deep, belly laughter did not solve any of the problems that I am wrestling with at a soul level, the break was welcome and so very healing.

"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens... a time to weep and a time to laugh a time to mourn and a time to dance..." Ecclesiastes 3:1,4



Thursday, March 5, 2015

Zip Lining

 I had been waiting a couple of years to zip line.  Chad and I had planned to zip line when we were in the DR several years ago - but he was too sick.  So, this trip I was determined to try it.

Before we signed up to do it, I debated with myself a bit though.  I knew what we needed most on this trip was rest.  More than one excursion was too much since we had quite a bit of business stuff to do as well.  Zip lining would make it impossible to do any shopping or explore the town at all.  I had been curious about the area; however, I decided we will hire drivers to take us on city tours when we are "old!"  A little adventure was what I wanted this time around.

 I was very curious as to what my reaction would be once I was actually zip lining.  Years ago I had been sure I would love snorkeling.  I was so excited to try it.  But, as it turns out, I am terrified of snorkeling.  When I get that tube in my mouth all I do is hyperventilate!

Chad was equally curious as to what I would think!  An excursion that contained 12 zip lines would be a major waste if I changed my mind!

I did not change my mind.

I absolutely loved zip lining.  It was incredible!

As I "zipped" across the lines, praise songs bubbled from my soul.  Looking out over the world far below from a God-eye view was just amazing.  I felt awake and alive and absolutely in awe.





 We did 12 lines.  We started in the middle of the mountain and climbed up for some and then down for the rest.  I would have loved to go longer.
 The last line crossed low over a stream.  I managed to avoid getting wet.

Chad was not quite so lucky!
 As one of the guys in our group said, "If you hadn't been hot dogging, you probably wouldn't have gotten so wet!"
 (After the tour guides saw Chad reach out to touch the water, they pulled the line down and bounced him into the stream a couple of times!)

 He said the water was VERY COLD!
 As soon as we got done with the final line, they gave us a mule to ride up the mountain.
I really wanted them to take a GREAT picture of me riding a mule up a mountain in my shorts and tennis shoes.  I though it would be SOOOO funny to make that my profile picture on FB.  Especially since they gave me the UGLIEST mule ever.  (Seriously!  This is the most photogenic animal in the universe because in real life he was SOOOOO ugly!)  Chad and I were nearly taking bets as to what my dad and brother would say about this photo, until I saw it.  I am sure they would still find a remark or two, but nothing like they would have if they had seen him in real time.  So, I will just have to pacify myself with the memory.

(For those of you that do not know, my dad (and brother) are horseman.  He has very carefully chosen each horse on his ranch because of its bloodlines and abilities.  My ugly mule and wearing a breast collar made of rope, would NOT make the cut.  Not to mention the fact that his daughter has never been allowed to ride in shorts and certainly NOT in tennis shoes!  Ha!)

In the end, zip lining was the best adventure I have had in a long time.  I am so glad we did it!  The only thing that would have been better would have been sharing the day with our oldest kids.  It would have been so fun to have them with us that day!

Wednesday, March 4, 2015

My Sunset Lesson: Beauty is in the Waiting

 One evening we were getting ready for a fancy dinner with business associates when I walked onto the patio and saw the sun was setting.  I grabbed my camera and ran (literally) barefoot down four floors of stairs and out onto the beach.

The beach is filled with people all day long, but during this series of photos it was empty.

Magical.

Wondrously beautiful.

It was a moment in which time stood still, and I breathlessly observed the work of the creator.

As I watched, I was sure that each frame I shot would be the most beautiful.
And He kept surprising me.

It was as if He kept whispering, "Wait for it!  Wait for it!  The best can not be rushed.  Be still and watch all I have to show you."

Though these pictures can never reach your soul the way He met mine as I sat alone on the beach with my camera and my God, I hope in them you feel just a bit of the awe and hope that I felt taking them.  

It was as if His glory was enveloping me, drawing me into Him bit by bit by bit.











He restores my soul.

Puerta Vallarta 2015

 Chad and I had a wonderful winter vacation last week when we flew to Puerta Vallarta for a business/pleasure getaway.  
Leaving is always hard, but this year it was both harder and easier than usual.

It was easier because I only have one job.  Prepping one office for my leave seemed simple after experiencing the chaos of prepping two before our last several trips!

It was harder because Mataya is so little.  I had never even left her for 6 hours prior to this trip.  I almost told Chad we could not go - however, these trips are such a great investment in our marriage.  My husband needs  to know he comes first sometimes.  Plus, how silly is it to give up a trip somewhere warm in the middle of a ND winter!?!

Thankfully, we have an incredible bunch of family that fills all the mommy gaps when I am away.  Mataya, along with all the other kids, was so well loved while we were gone.  My parents spent evenings, the weekend, and overnights here.  Krissy spent the days with Mataya.  Since I knew Mataya would always have one of her favorite people (her sisters!) close at hand, I knew she would do OK when I was away.  I am so very thankful for the incredible bond my big girls share with this tiny one.  It is such a gift.

I'm not sure why but watching the sunrise from my window seat on the plane was really moving.  It was like God himself encouraging me to slow down, breath deep, and watch closely for the works of His hands in the week to come. 
We all relax in different ways.  While I alternately napped, gazed out my window, and read a book; Chad played Angry Birds on the flight!  He and I certainly choose different ways to unwind!
It has been an extra cold and dry winter, so walking out of the airport and soaking in both sunshine and humidity was such a treat.  Our resort was in Riviera Nayarit, just a short ride from the airport.
Chad and I are normally economy travelers, but when we go on these Chief trips they book the nicest resorts around.  We were greeted with cold washcloths, cold drinks, and bellboys that personally walked us to our rooms explaining the resort on the way.  Not quite the Super 8!
 Our room was very nice.  It had some high tech features that we had never seen before.  In order to make all the lights work, you needed to insert the room key into a slot right inside of the door.  

The bathroom was spectacular, although I did not take any pictures.  It had a big jetted tub.  It also had a beautiful steam shower.
 But our favorite feature of the room was the outdoor balcony.  It had both a chair and a bed!  From the bed you could view the ocean in shaded privacy.  It was lovely and so cozy.
The view from our balcony.

The ocean in PV was loud. . . we felt it to be louder than anywhere else we have been!  I love the sound of the waves crashing, so being able to hear them all night long was really relaxing.
My very favorite part of an ocean vacation is running on the beach.  I ran for miles every day we were gone.  Since I am lucky if  my schedule allows me to run 3 times a week at home, it really awesome to have time each day to run!  Running is where my brain rests best.

The first day we were there I ran a bit longer than I had planned when I ran past our resort and got a bit lost!  Only I would get so busy watching the ocean that I forget where "home" is.  My short run turned into a long one that day!
The distractions certainly are beautiful!
 This resort had the best food.  Truly, THE BEST!  At this resort, "all-inclusive" included room service, mini-bar, all regular hotel restaurants and bars, and their 4-Diamond restaurants.  While I would have ordered room service every morning, Chad loved the buffet best!  We did compromise and order room service one morning though.

We have never been anywhere that had the incredibly high level of service that this resort had.  The staff was like spies!  When I ordered a glass of red wine one evening before dinner at the lobby bar, the word was out that I liked wine.  The next day when we sat down at a pool-side restaurant the waiter arrived with a glass of wine for me because he knew I liked it!  In all honesty, I would have preferred something else with my chips and guac, but I was so moved by the attention to detail that I drank that glass of wine like I was royalty!

And the guac. . . it was life-altering!

As was the food at the 4-Diamond restaurants.  Seriously, the food was amazing.  It was beautifully presented. (I have never seen food as beautiful.)  Even better, it was so delicious.  I have no idea what half of the things I ate were - but every one of them was incredible.

Can you tell I adore being waited on?  Pretty?  And delicious?
  
We had very limited internet.  Pictures rarely went through, however Sierra managed to send me a few snaps.  I was so thankful.  I missed my kids (all of them) more than I have ever missed them.
 We have been blessed to be in several tropical locations over the last 10 years.  Keeping that in mind, although Puerta Vallarta was pretty, it was not the most beautiful place we have traveled.  However, the weather may have been the best we have experienced on a winter vacation.  It was 80-85*, humid but not too humid, and just a bit breezy.  It was truly perfect.
 I do not think I have ever needed rest as much as I did on this trip.  While my life has been more stressful during other seasons, I have never had this little sleep.  Between Mataya getting me up overnight and the teens chatting late into the evening/morning - I do not sleep much.  Being able to sleep all night long AND nap during the day was amazing.  I had totally forgotten what it felt like to be rested.  My contacts were not even scratchy once the bags under my eyes receded a bit!
 The resort had a series of infinity pools.  They were beautiful.  They were also warm!  I typically do not like pools.  Cool water is not my favorite - but these pools were so pleasant even I spent time in them!

We also swam in the ocean.  Chad is always shocked because his non-water-loving wife insists on jumping in the waves of the ocean at least once every trip.  The ocean at PV was quite warm and not as salty as some places we have been. It would be a fun place to play with Joshua and Mataya.
We were in Puerta Vallarta for 5 days.  We spent 4 of those days laying on the beach during the day, and at business dinners in the evening.  We did NO shopping - seriously, we brought home NOTHING, not even gifts for the kids.  We did not explore the town.  We rested.  We soaked in sunshine, talked a lot of shop (Chad always uses these trips to look at our business from a bigger picture stance.  When we are away from the day to day "emergencies," it is easier to dream dreams and make big picture goals.), and listened to each other without being interrupted.  While it was not the most adventurous vacation we have had, it was exactly what we needed.

We did have one grand adventure. . . zip lining. . . which I will post about soon!