"May the God of hope fill you with great joy and peace as you trust in him." Romans 15:13

Monday, December 31, 2018

Christmas 2018

This year we celebrated Christmas with our tribe Sunday, Dec 16.  Originally, Jamison and Ida had planned to be in Norway for Christmas, so we planned to celebrate early. When their plans fell through and Krissy and Devin had already asked for the day off, we decided to stick with the original plan.  I was so glad we did.  It was nice to spread things out a bit.  The little people were less tired and overwhelmed; the adults were less rushed.  It was a really sweet day.

It began in church.  I do not think we have ever attended church with both of Krissy's kids.  And it wrecked me. . . in a good way.  When Sophia marched around every other adoring family member to get to her Lala during worship saying, "Lala HOLD ME!" and proceeded to snuggle happily under my chin as we sang, tears dripped down my chin.  Looking down the long pew to see all of my most precious blessings all in a row, was nearly too much.  Who am I that God would choose to give me all of them to love?  My heart and joy leaked down my cheeks as we sang.  That was MY Christmas moment.  All others were frosting.


 This girl has my entire heart.  I often say that she brings out the LaLa in me.  Sophia and I delight in each other.  She has this "LaLa dance" she does when she sees me.  She says things like, "I got my LaLa!" and "No, my LaLa!"  and "I love you, LaLa." I can not get enough of her.
 Also - currently everything about Sophia is emphatic.  She knows exactly what she wants and needs, and she chooses to clearly communicate her desires!  Part of why  adore her so much is because I am on her list of favorites.  Those who are not. . . well, you better beware!
After church, Chad made the kids' favorite. . . cinnamon roll pancakes and bacon.  It is a sugar fest, but soooooo yummy!




 In the last few months we have reached a new milestone.  Instead of fighting or getting into trouble together, this trio actually plays!  Wyatt and Mataya are two peas in a pod, and Mataya is always very nurturing and inclusive with Sophia.  When they are together it is FUN!
 At 3.5, Wyatt is all boy.  He loves race cars, movement, race cars, and movement.  He is always on the move - but Grandpa did keep him still through church by sketching race cars for him to color.  He is an adventure a minute, but a very sweet, kind boy who always gives hugs and thank you's.
 Little Sophie-doodle was so proud to help carry packages.
 Our six.
So thankful they agree to pose for me once a year.
They didn't even complain this year!
 Now maybe you understand my tears of gratitude in church.  These are ALL my people.  Words can not express the blessing that they are to me.





 My grandma Regner once told me that every little girl needs a new dolly for Christmas, so I make sure to keep her tradition alive in my littlest ones.  

Our newlyweds.  There is no privacy in our busy house, but they have this ability to be alone in a crowd.  I hope they never lose it.

We spent Dec 21-24 at the lake with the four youngest kids.  The quiet simplicity of the lake in the midst of Christmas crazy was AMAZING!  We returned home in time to go to church and have dinner with the Hoff (Chad's mom's side of the family.)
Although I could have (and perhaps should have) taken many photos, this was the only one I snapped.  Chad's precious grandma is celebrating Christmas without her husband this year.  We all miss Chad's grandpa Cal so much.  Chad and Cal were very close, and thus we have many photos of them together - but very few of Chad and his grandma.  I wanted to make sure and change that!

We got home in time for Mataya to leave snacks and a note for Santa.  Joshua was terrified of Santa, so it had been a long time since we had left treats for Santa.  What fun her sparkle and enthusiasm was!

Mataya came into our room about 7:30 Christmas morning, convinced Santa's reindeer had awakened her.  She was quite thrilled to find a note and gifts where her snack had been.


Christmas Day was spent with my side of the family at my momma's house.  She fed and loved and gifted us with a day that only she is capable of producing.  My momma has a gift for hospitality.  She thinks of every detail, every time.  As for me, I just drank it all in.  The majority of photos I snapped happened before I even left our home.  BUT, there are worse things than being absorbed in the moments, are there not?
 I adore when Sierra and Mataya sing together.








It was one of the most peaceful and precious Christmas celebrations I have experienced, with a four day weekend, tons of unrushed family time and pleasant weather.  These are the moments I want to hide in my heart and savor, always.

Always!

Sunday, December 23, 2018

The Wonder of His Love

Last year the Christmas lyric "He appeared and the soul felt its worth," defined my year.  It hung on my wall and soothed my soul throughout some hard days.  Likewise, it reminded from where my joy originated throughout some really good days.  2018 really was a year of contrast, and those lyrics followed me.

This advent, the words that set my soul afire are "THE WONDER OF HIS LOVE."

The amount He loves ME absolutely amazes me.  As I gaze into it and ponder it as fully as my humanness allows, WONDER is exactly what I feel.

When I choose to, I see it. . . HIS EXTRAVAGANT LOVE everywhere.

In the face of my children.

In our full refrigerator.

In bills we are able to pay.

In nature.  Oh, how I wonder of His love when I gaze into nature.

In laughter.

In tears.

And in our cabin.  It is such a source of healing, rest and encouragement to me.  While no project we have ever completed was as much work, no project has brought us as much joy.  In the midst of one of the busiest most chaotic and uncertain seasons of our lives, the ability to retreat and REST is a miracle.  God's grace and perfect timing strike me deep every time I am here.  He knew that this is exactly what we would need at this exact time.  And my gratefulness in Him can not be explained.

As we spend the weekend before Christmas hidden away at the cabin reading books, baking cookies, watching movies, and napping my heart is filled to completely overflowing as I think of the wonder of His love for each of us.

Because I have never shared completed pictures on this format, I do today.  But the heart of this post is not the "STUFF" but One who made it all possible.








Thank you, Jesus, for this place of rest.  May we always use it for Your glory.

Catching Up...

The second half of 2018 has passed in a blur.  So many things have changed in our home, and in the mix of change my own priorities had to change.  Blogging was set aside - and for the time it was right.  I was maxed out.  But in the quiet days of advent, as I prepare my heart and mind for a new year, I feel this longing to record some of the journey.  I know that "treasuring these things in my heart" for me includes recording it.  It is how I best process and savor and remember.  So, in a nutshell. . . this will celebrate and record the major stuff of 2018.

The biggest news?!?

Jamison and Ida got engaged on a mountaintop in Norway in August.

We were thrilled.

A few weeks later, I took their engagement pictures.



And October 12, 2018. . . they eloped.
Surprise!  

While the plan to have a traditional church wedding  in Norway this August remains in place, they were advised to marry sooner for reasons of immigration. . .  so they went to the courthouse and got hitched.  And proceeded to live in separate campus apartments until the semester ended.

Love is not simple or easy, but it does conquer all.
They are currently celebrating their first Christmas as a family of three in their very first apartment together.  

We have been joking that their Christmas card should say something about the rumors about their quick wedding were correct... they were expecting A PUPPY!

While their journey is not typical or simple, they are crazy in love and so good together.  We adore Ida and are so thankful that she is now officially and forever a part of our family!

(They have many hoops to jump because immigration is very complicated and expensive, so your prayers are appreciated.)

One more highlight of the year in regards to the newlyweds. . .
In an amazing and incredible turn of events, Ida had an phenominal cross country season.  At one point, over a year post surgery, she doubted she would ever run well again.  She determined to be happy with doing her best, whatever that may be, and set a goal to be the #7 runner on her team so that she could travel to Nationals one more time.  Now since before surgery Ida was a several time All American runner, shooting for #7 on the team was a huge "downgrade" - but rather than give up, she chose to persevere.   And as she chose gratitude and humility and perseverance, healing happened.  I knew she was running better and better, but when Jamison texted me that she finished 3rd at the Griak (a HUGE MN meet) I spent the whole day holding back tears of gratitude.  Her season continued to be amazing.  She finished 12th at Nationals on a rainy, mud covered course with Jamison there to cheer for her and the rest of her family - both the American and Norwegian - watching on the internet.  All of us cheering and panicking and crying with joy and relief, celebrating her success from near and far.  It was amazing.  She is amazing.  And the healing power God grants our bodies and minds is amazing.

Moving on. . .



About the same time Jamison was off in Norway proposing to his wife, we dropped Sierra off at UND.  Her transition to college life was rough.  Just a few weeks into school, a new friend was raped.  Sierra was central in caring for her after this crime took place.  Needless to say, it was traumatic.  I still cry thinking of her. . . both hers (the girl who was raped and my beautiful daughter as she bagged clothing for evidence and loved and supported her victimized friend).  Never have I wanted to move a child home as much as I did in the days and weeks that followed.  Sierra struggled in ways she had never struggled before, and I wanted her HOME, safe and protected.  Yet, I did not want to teach her to retreat in fear.  It was ugly people. Campus life at UND seemed wild, crazy, and unsafe.  And at times it was.  She had to dig deep, redefining who she is and who she plans to be.  But slowly, through many prayers and tears and sleepless nights, I have watched a woman emerge.  She is stronger and wiser than the girl in the picture above.  She does not have everything figured out, and she is learning to be OK with it.  It has been a rough road, one I would NEVER wish her to travel, but God uses all things for our good and His glory.  Watching her learn to trust that has been miserable and beautiful all in one.

Brenna has blossomed.

She is a sophomore and LOVING life as the oldest Dietrich.  It has been such a joy to spend time with her.  I am learning that for much of her life, she chose to quietly wait her turn.  She didn't want to fight to be heard and in our noisy home, you either have to get noisy or wait your turn.  It is NOW her turn!  Talking to her for hours has been incredible.  She is fun, crazy smart, artistic, realistic and all around one of my favorite people in the universe.  These last months with her have been such a gift.

As for me, the HUGEST transition of this year has been the choice to home school.

After an incredible amount of prayer, research, soul searching, and asking of the experts, Chad and I decided that the best educational option for Joshua would be to home school.  He has some unique educational needs.  The public school system destroyed his self esteem.  The Innovation School restored much of his self esteem, but did not fill educational gaps.  I wiggled and squirmed, avoided and excused - but in the end it was clear to Chad and I both, that it was time I put some skin in the game. 

It has been hard people.

He has cried.

I have cried.

There have been days we have pushed each other to the edge.  It has taken more self control than I knew I was capable of possessing to teach this unwilling learner.  There are afternoons I collapse in a chair in  Chad's office and unpack "school" for an hour, trying to process and emotionally recover from the hard of the day.

BUT

I am 1,000,000,000,000% sure it is the right decision.  (Though some days I wish I were not!)

In order to get past some of his educational gaps, he needs to work one on one with someone he trusts.  He needs play.  He needs purpose - which to him is old-fashioned hard work, not reports, science experiments or books.  The flexibility that home schooling provides is miraculous.  The growth that I am witnessing is amazing.  

This photo is perhaps the best evidence of his growth.

He tested for his first taekwondo belt last week.  He began in September.  He so wanted to do it, however his coordination was lacking, following instructions was not on a list of things he enjoyed, and trying new things caused BIG time anxiety.  Watching him test bravely and even as a leader in some ways, just 2.5 months later brought tears to my eyes. And when at the end of the test the Master told the kids they were going to break a board, I may have panicked slightly.  Could he do that?!?  I glanced at Chad, who has been the parent in charge of taekwondo, and I saw a bit of concern in his eyes as well.  

Later, this is what Joshua told us.  "my first practice kick, I thought... oh boy, this board is strong... BUT I am stronger.  I can do this thing!"

And he did.

And he proudly let me take a picture.

And he was thrilled to have me post it on FB.

And he sent the picture to his brother and cousins.

Confidence, faith, determination, emotional self-control - that is our wish for him.  Along with literacy and math skills.  BUT if we had to choose, we would choose character over scholastic accomplishment every time.  I feel blessed to have a front row seat in his journey.


At the center of all this change, is the two of us.

Of all the things in my life I have to be thankful for, he is numero uno.  

Keeping up with our growing family and business is not easy.  Staying connected in the midst of the chaos is a choice, and Chad is so good at holding tight, keeping me grounded and loving me well.  There is never a day that I take for granted the friends, lovers, business partners, and unified parenting team that we are.  This year we will celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary, and I am so humbly grateful to say I am more crazy in love with this man today than I was 25 years ago.

My heart overflows.

OK - so I know I have not mentioned Krissy, Devin, Wyatt, Sophia or Mataya.  The short answer, they are good.  Steady!  Think no news is good news - and trust that I will include them soon.  I am hoping to blog more in the year to come.  I miss being able to look back at the daily and remember the moments.  Life is full and rich and noisy and bold and so busy.  SO BUSY!  But carving out time to remember is important to me.  Hopefully, it can be a source of personal peace and joy once again in this year to come.